Tough Love – Abrams, Gracie

Lyrics: Tough Love by Abrams, Gracie

I took a train to Boston and I wanted to cry

He's gone

I'm 24 and it's a Saturday night

I ran and took his jacket with the rip in the side

I hate when we fight

It sucks when we fight

But honestly whatever he's just one the boys

I'll date for like a summer and I'll leave when I'm bored

This train is full of strangers but I might like them more

I said I might like em more

Yeah no I like them more

And that's just

Tough love but I mean it

Really mean it

I'm not charmed so I'm leaving

I laughed the second he tried to call my bluff

I guess it's always funny until it's not

When I left him there to feel it

Couldn't guess what I'd be leaving for

No chance I'll waste my 20s on random men

Not one of them is cooler than all my friends

And I hate to leave him bleeding

But I know now what I'm leaving

For

I'm walking by the river and I stopped by the boats

At night it's kinda tempting just to see if you'd float

The benches by the Charles gave me somewhere to go

I feel like I'm home

There's a bar down the road

I'm wasted with the sister of a boy that I met

Through someone back in college

She's a weird intellect

She liked to tell the truth and she was harsh but direct

Her boyfriends all left

She had that effect

But that's just

Tough love

And you're lucky to receive it

Right?

He'll crumble to pieces

I laughed the second he tried to call my bluff

I guess it's always funny until it's not

When I left him there in pieces

Couldn't guess what I'd be leaving

For

No chance I'll waste my 20s on random men

Not one of them is smarter than all my friends

And I hate to leave him bleeding

But I know now what I'm leaving

For

Oh I know now what I'm leaving for

Oh I know now what I'm leaving

No, I'm not gonna miss the way he'd kick me in my bed while sleeping

And I'm not gonna miss his shitty friends and nights of their binge drinking

And I'm not gonna miss his old inflated-ego shallow thinking

And I'm not gonna miss denying that I've got my own damn reasons

I laughed the second he tried to call my bluff

I guess it's always funny until it's not

When I left him there to feel it

Couldn't guess what I'd be leaving

For

No chance I'll waste my 20s on random men

Not one of them is tougher than all my friends

And I hate to leave him bleeding

But I know now what I'm leaving

For

Lyric Analysis: Embracing Independence and Self-Worth

“Tough Love” by Gracie Abrams is a candid reflection on heartbreak, growth, and self-realization in your twenties. Through vivid storytelling, Abrams captures the bittersweet freedom of ending a relationship that no longer serves her. The lyrics highlight the importance of valuing friendships and personal happiness over fleeting romance. With sharp honesty and a touch of humor, Abrams celebrates the courage it takes to walk away and prioritize one’s own path.

Song Credits

  • Artist: Gracie Abrams
  • Songwriter(s): Gracie Abrams
  • Release Year: 2024