Skinny Love – Bon Iver

Come on skinny love just last the year

Pour a little salt we were never here

My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my

Staring at the sink of blood and crushed veneer

I tell my love to wreck it all

Cut out all the ropes and let me fall

My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my

Right in this moment this order’s tall

And I told you to be patient

And I told you to be fine

And I told you to be balanced

And I told you to be kind

And in the morning I’ll be with you

But it will be a different “kind”

I’ll be holding all the tickets

And you’ll be owning all the fines

Come on skinny love what happened here

Suckle on the hope in light brassiere

My, my, my, my, my, my, my, my

Sullen load is full; so slow on the split

And I told you to be patient

And I told you to be fine

And I told you to be balanced

And I told you to be kind

And now all your love is wasted?

Then who the hell was I?

Now I’m breaking at the britches

And at the end of all your lines

Who will love you?

Who will fight?

Who will fall far behind?

Ooh, ooh

The Fragility of ‘Skinny Love’: A Closer Look

Bon Iver’s “Skinny Love” is a haunting ballad that captures the rawness of a relationship on the brink. The phrase “skinny love” itself suggests a bond that is barely holding on—fragile and stripped to its emotional core. Through vivid imagery like “staring at the sink of blood and crushed veneer,” the lyrics evoke a sense of loss and vulnerability. The repeated pleas to be patient, fine, and kind reveal the struggle to salvage something slipping away, while the questions in the final verse reflect the uncertainty and pain of letting go.

Song Credits

  • Songwriter: Justin Vernon
  • Release Year: 2007
  • Label: Jagjaguwar